Cartel explains the male species

The guys from Cartel are not just musicians. They are wise men. Read on as the band members address bi-sexuality, online dating and their revenge of choice. Check out this Rock N Roll Therapy.




Shotgunmessage: It's honestly quite simple, I just have no idea what to do. I really like one of my friends, if i could love somebody it would be her. She knows I'm bisexual, but she is straight and doesn't know I like her. Should I tell her? If so how?

Cartel: You need to tell her.  Bisexual means that you are down for BOTH teams, it wont hurt your chances.  Dont tell her while drunk or under the influence of drugs, you could start rambling.  Just be completely honest and your chances will be good.  Dont get too mushy with "I love you" s**t, keep it cool, too early for that sort of talk.  If it works out your gonna have to cut out the same sex sex - so keep that in mind before spilling your bi guts.




Sarahelsinki: I'm 18, single, and have never had a boyfriend. I've tried really hard to get one, it just never works. The only buys that have ever liked me are the ones that skeeve me out, or they just want sex. I've done everything I can think of to get a boyfriend, dressed girly, wear make up, attempt and make friend with guys, but nothing works. What am I doing wrong? And is there anything I can even do? Or am I just supposed to wait around, cause that's what everyone's always said to me, "Don't worry, it'll happen" or "Don't worry college will be different." Btw I am in college, a small one, and its still the same...=/

Cartel: Us men are a weird species. First - your not doing anything wrong, but most guys do consider sex quite often. I have to agree with "everyone" - these things can just take some time. Think about it - you would much rather date someone who you actually like than date someone just for the sport of it. Dont think about it too much, do your thing, and it will find you. If it doesnt you can always just troll online. Those Match.com ads look promising.




Mercedez: I'm with the boy I love and adore so damn much and my boyfriend's ex is killing it for me. She's talking a lot of s**t about me and my best friend when I didn't do s**t to her. Every time she sees my boyfriend alone she goes after him and I hate when they're in the same room but they only talk. I try nont to get mad at him but then again I don't wanna say stay the f**k away from her...even if that's what I really want. I just want to kick her a**! I've even stopped cutting myself for my boyfriend...what do I do?

Cartel: Well it sounds like this dude has been a good influence, the cutting s**t had to be stopped.  If hes not trying to f**k the ex, then he more than likely is'nt feeling it.  If the ex is talking that much s**t you might want slash her tires. Wait til late at night, wear gloves and all black clothing and just go pop all 4. You will feel amazing and she wont be able to get to your man.  Dont try to hit her though, thats when you go jail.

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