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Thanks to the power of the Web, False Start have sent over advice all the way from New Zealand to Buzznet members dealing with issues concerning illness, crushes and even hunting! Communication is key with any problem. Check out this Rock N Roll Therapy.




Danichiki: Last year my father had prostate cancer. My parents didn't tell me about it till after he had had surgery to remove his prostate. A little over a month ago my mother went in to get a biopsy done of a mass on her shoulder, she lied and said she was going to Anne's house. The doctor's office called while she was gone to cancel her apt. I don't even know how that biopsy came back. Just this week my father went to the VA in Philly which is pretty far away when we have a VA clinic right here. I'm afraid my father has cancer again and isn't telling me. I hate that I'm treated like an ignorant child, I know I'm only 18 but I'm old enough to handle the truth! I can't trust anything my parents tell me any more, I don't know what to do.

Ash: Hey there, firstly I'm really sorry to hear about your parents illnesses my heart goes out to you and to your family. I think that what you need to do is really talk, really talk to them and tell them how you feel, they're your parents and your their child, I know it seems hard but I really feel that spilling your guts out helps in understanding where a person's coming from. It may also be very hard for your parents to be dealing with all of this, as it isn't exactly a minor illness issue. I feel that communication is the key here my friend. Be strong! Wish you all the best.




Goodnightfey: I met this guy a few months ago and we had this automatic connection, but we remained friends, because I was dating another guy. But recently, the guy I had been dating [for 3 years] broke up with me for another girl. It's been difficult to deal with it, but the guy that I met a few months ago is wonderful and always makes me laugh and is willing to take things slow with me because of the recent break up. The thing is, he hunts, and that's something I'm totally against. I'm not sure what to do about getting in a relationship with him because of him hunting. I'm not quite
positive if I'm overreacting a bit by not wanting to date him, so I wanted to know if I should be with him anyway, because I can't ever seem to get him out of my head.

Vaughn: Follow your heart. Forget about the hunting for now and if your heart says give him a go do it and see what happens. Don't let yourself think "what could of been". Seize the day and live life to the fullest, this is the best. Live life and have true happiness.




Concertfreak: I have this friend that I have known for a while now. When I first met him and got to know him I had a crush on him. Telling him I liked him was hard and I was afraid on what would happen with our friendship. When I told him, he was a good sport and he was completely understanding. The crush has subsided substantially. Since then we talk but not as much as I like. He has even said himself that I don't talk to him much. Part of that is my fault, but it also takes him forever to get back and when we have a good conversation flow it just ends. I totally understand that his only means of contact with people is his sidekick. I would like to tell him flat out but again I am afraid for the friendship. Thats all that matters to me is being his friend. I also feel that at times he is not totally honest with me. I tell him a lot but not the other way around. Should I just suck it up and tell him flat out how I am feeling. I know its the correct thing to do and thats how you build relationships with people. Its always easier said then done. I need a guys perspective.

Andrew: You should definitely just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Honesty is always the best. If he reacts badly and isn't understanding then he's not worth it. The important thing about relationships is that they are based on friendship. If you don't have friendship, they're not gonna last. Maybe give it some time, but be honest with him and tell him how you feel right now.

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