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Take The Crown have toured the country and have learned a lot about life along the way. Ryan offers up good solutions to some bad personal and relationship problems in this edition of Rock N Roll Therapy.




Bellamuerte666: So basically I hate the way I look and because of that I do extremely destructive things. since I do these thing that just makes me even more depressed and so I do more. the thing is I know I shouldn't really hate myself as much as I do. I mean at least I'm not as fat as I used to be. basically I lost a lot of weight and I guess I still see my self as that person. because of that when people give me compliments  I still think that they're making fun of me because I guess I'm so used to the criticism and jokes that I can't help it. even worse is that I can't let anyone in the walls that I've put up to protect myself. How can I finally get passed that so that I can finally let people in?

Ryan: You need to understand that not everyone is against you. if your friends tell you something, odds are they mean it. dont be so down on yourself. when you put walls up to your friends you arent allowing them to get cloes to you. be more open minded and positive. be happy with yourself and people will be happy with you.



Risegrainroses: I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm not depressed, but I'm not happy and I can't seem to be positive about much. I'm doubting everything - What I'm doing with my life, where I'm going later in life, etc. It's driving me nuts that I can't figure everything out and seriously, it's starting to affect everything else in my life. How can I learn to just be okay?

Ryan: Well i think you need to accept the fact that you arent sure what your future is. thats so common. most people have no idea what they want to do with their lives. just think positive and be sure that you are happy now. surround yourself with positive people. life isnt that bad. make the best out of every situation.



Mcrvampirebat: for the past few years of my life things have really changed. I’ve made friends and lost them. only my best would find out that I’ve been cutting myself for a while. my best and only trusting friend just moved away and now I don’t have anyone to talk to. I want to be able to talk to someone about my problems that Isn’t going to let my parents know what’s happening in my life. what do I do?

Ryan: Call a hotline. there are tons of them. im sure youve heard it before but cutting is never the answer. hotlines are private and super helplful.



Dorkezoid: Me and my gf have been going out 4 almost 2 months, we had a sudden connection things felt right. We’ve already told each other I love you. in all the relationships I’ve been in I’ve never found love until she came along everything’s been great up until now. she lives in NY i live in CA it was my b-day yesterday she told me a week ago she was gonna come and see me I was very excited we had plans and everything. But when the day actually came I didn’t see her I even went looking 4 her where she said she was @. if she couldn’t come 2 see I would’ve understood but I get this feeling that she was stringing me along. By the time it was 9pm sum of the stuff she was saying didn’t add up it seemed as though she wasn’t in CA @ all. as if I’m just being fu**ed with and that really hurts idk what 2 do I’m so confused. and so far 2 day she hasn’t txt me or call me which makes me once again believe she’s lying. I really do love her but if I’m right how will I still b able 2 do so? idk exactly what I’m asking 4 here but just an opinion would b awesome.

Ryan: Bail on her. she is lying. youre better off not even wasting your time. the distance isnt the problem. long distance can be worked out, but she seems to be a flake. move on. thats what myspace is for.