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Have you ever considered leaving your boyfriend for your celebrity crush? Are you confused about your sexuality and aren't sure who to turn to? Nervous about a friend who may harm himself? It's tough for anyone to face these problems alone. This is why Danny from National Product has returned to give you a shoulder to lean on as well as some unbiased advice. Check out this Rock N Roll Therapy.




Booyakashaabby: Okay, I have this boyfriend named Simon, and I guess he's okay. He's nice, sweet, sensitive, but lets face it. He's no Alex Gaskarth. I am head over heels in love with Alex, and I have pictures of him all over my room, locker, you name it. Well, Simon doesn't appreciate this and gets really mad at me! I try to tell him that it's only because Alex is more perfect, but Simon just gets even more mad! Can someone help me change my boyfriend into Alex Gaskarth, please?

Danny: Ready for this answer? I am...first off. No one is perfect and it’s totally unfair to put your boyfriend through that. If you feel there is someone much better than him, you should be the better person and let your boyfriend find someone who will appreciate him in the capacity that he deserves. On one hand he should understand that Alex is someone you have a "celebrity" crush on, and you in a sense "come home" to your boyfriend at the end of every day, but to rub it in his face and even tell him that someone else is MORE PERFECT than him takes balls and is pretty harsh. I always live my life with the "do unto other as you would like to be done to you" It means treat people how you wish to be treated.




Kerstieatworld: This is a bit awkward, so I'm hoping that none of my friends/people I know read this. Anyway. Like most teenagers, you get to a point where you start to wonder what sexuality you are. Hetro-, bi- or homo-sexual. The thing is, I don't feel like I'm neither. It's hard to explain, and please don't laugh at me. I like boys, in the way that I'm attracted to them. But as soon as it gets below the waist, I'm completely turned off. and as for girls, I'm not attracted to them (in the same way as to boys) except below the waist. I feel so f-ed up. No pun intended. but seriously, what would you call that? Half-bi?

Danny: I think depending on your age, you are still finding what you like and what feels right. Like everything in life, your gonna fall on your face a couple of time in the process of finding all the little things that will eventually make you YOU. Don't feel like your messed up just because you don't know yet. That's completely ok. Another thing to remember is that due to you not knowing exactly what you like yet, you need to sample things within reason and try things out that your feeling. Your heart and your gut never lie. Chin up and enjoy your life just be smart & safe.




Em0pants99: So..I was kinda friends with this guy I used to work with, and I found out he liked me, but I REEEEEEEEEALLLLLY liked one of his best friends, so then I was like, "you know what? Bob doesn't like me, so I'll just go over here and flirt with Fernando. We flirted A LOT on the phone, and after awhile, I was like..."okay, I can't do this anymore. I don't like you like that. He wouldn't talk to me for a week. A couple of days later, he sent me a forward, and it said something about love. I was all, "we can't be anything more than friends, but I promise we'll stay friends forever, k?" So..then I find out, his ex-gf got a restraining order against him, and he tried to kill himself by driving off a cliff. It kinda freaked me out when I found this out. How should I react? Should I still be friends with him?

Danny: Clinger stage 5. That's no good. People get weird with love. I think there are people out there that genuinely want to love people and there are people who think that love will fix their problems. Those people usually break down and freak out when love leaves them or doesn't work out because they base their entire self worth around another person. I have always believed that you need to have your priorities in life. There is only one person above me, and I look up for that. Then, I come #1 all the way across the board, then family, friends and so on and so forth. I think friends means sticking it out thru thick and thin. A great saves the day lyrics once said..."I choose my company, by the beating of their hearts and not the swelling of their heads." If he gets weirder and you feel threatened or responsible for something he may do then it would be best to end it.




Blackparadegirl: Okay..so for a little less than a year, this kid Kyle, has been tormenting me and my friends whenever and where ever we go. Whenever he and his friends see us they scream things similar to "f---ing emo" "die" whatever else he can think of. We have never talked to him or his friends personally and they have no reason to hate us. Today they took it a step too far. Me and a friendwere sitting at benches we usually sit at in town and we see them driving past, no other cars in sight and he gets up in the sun roof and screams "we dont f---Ing care!" and throws something at us, I ducked and it hit Nikki pretty much directly in the stomach.I don’t understand why they have such a problem with us. Nikki decides that the best thing to do is respond by beating the s--t out of him. I don’t think tha’ts a great idea....what the f--k are we gonna do???

Danny: Haha, this was a good read. Your genuinely pissed off and rightfully so. I think these dudes wanna hook up with you guys. When I was in kindergarten, I used to beat the crap out of the chick I had a crush on. It’s either that, or these dudes are really messed up. You should never have to question solving a problem that makes you feel threatened and you never solve any problems with violence. Violence begets more violence. Look at our President. He is not sending our youngest and finest to Iraq for peace. I know that is what they feed us all day long but its more a much different purpose and they are using violence to get what they want. I’m getting carried away, so to settle it, call the cops and let him know you mean business.

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